On Thursday, July 14, 2005, at 12:01 PM, lauf-s wrote:
Anand, Design-L should stay at architexturez.net . Brain started architexturez.net very much with Design-L in mind. Although you now "own" (is it?) architexturez.net, you also by default owe Design-L a place at architexturez.net.
oh god. Steve, it's not a conspiracy. architexturez
is a public architectural project now being developed
by Anand and his crew, he kept the project alive and
this list. why you have such a problem with him i do
not know, i mean, get over it, people have different
ideas and do things differently, and we can co-exist
and be respectful enough, that we know the limits of
relations where things are worth challenging because
it impacts larger issues, and where it is a personal
attack and vendetta against a person for a fictional
or delusional or emotional reason that is beyond the
boundaries of discourse and 'out to get someone' at
any cost, to fulfill some need to project the anger.
it is mostly normal, as most relations are like this
to some degree, but this is taken well beyond normal
levels of antagonism and at that point it is extreme.
it is unhealthy, for everyone, and it hurts everyone.
let's just cool it down and let's take some time off.
until we can get back into a reasonable situation here.
let's cool down the emotions and let it rest for awhile.
please. the list is effectively dead and i can no more
to prevent it now, i am not a moderator of the list.
i am a member. to be a member, the one requirement
may be to be respectful of other members rights to
exist on the list. as they equally belong here too.
if you can't deal with it, you should not be here.
that may be the second list rule, over 12+ years of
the list online. limiting of commercial advertising
being the first, largely unspoken rule. now we got 2.
recognize it, or leave. nothing else is acceptable.
As to your issues with me, at least address me with them openly.
the list does not exist for you to leverage for a
personal attack, take it into private e-mail land.
period. please, retain some sense of where you are.
this is not just inside your head, it is in the world.
the public of this list is ~ open forum, open ideas ~
related to design and this is not related to design.
it is a private situation, deal with it privately.